Does age matter in relationship?

sunandaC

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"However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside" A wonderful saying that speaks that a relationship between people has got no age bar. We relate with people just because we like their various aspects of life then may it be their behaviour, their thinking, attitude, habits, or just self. When one gets attatched with all these qualitites of a person then does the question of their age come into our mind, this may be as regards any relationship that we come across. Say for example if we like a person and then if he comes to know that she is either younger or elder to him, will this point be considered to give a relationship a name for example husband and wife. Will age become a barrier in such a relationship?
 

johnrobinson

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Never.

Because we are loving a person by knowing his character, behavior, etc.
In other words, these factors attracting to him and hence age doesn't matter in building a relationship.
 

tahreign

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Yes it does matter , if a partner is too young or too old then it becomes quite difficult to have the same compatibility level. So the age difference should not be more than 3 years.
 

meagoodguy

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Dear Taher, Many classical romances are of age difference much much more than 3 years. You will yourself realise it in life later. But All the best , anyways
 

sunandaC

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Dosn't matter, but can be very significant in compatibility.

It is very significant in case of compatibility means age has due consideration everywhere, well for now its compatibility, and as many aspect pop up, age is going to be considered every time.
 

sunandaC

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Yes it does matter , if a partner is too young or too old then it becomes quite difficult to have the same compatibility level. So the age difference should not be more than 3 years.

Yup, i do agree that the max age differences in a relation should not exceed three years. because i feel that this age difference will not matter much, but then if it exceeds this range then there might arise some compatiblity problems and else. Hence, well said friend.
 

donold

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it depend on person to person some time age doesn't matter for all... but other side of corner is that maximum 3 year gap can do but more then of it make relation unhealthy some time....
 

magical

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yes. maybe now it wont matter but in the later stages of life it will matter a lot when all needs are not met.
 

sunandaC

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yes. maybe now it wont matter but in the later stages of life it will matter a lot when all needs are not met.

Well said, in early times when one is in love, it seems that the world famous quote "Love is Blind" suits here. With a span of time, when the charm reduces may be this is the time when one starts thiking about the personal needs that arent fulfilled, hence the regime of conflicts starts then....
 

sweetankur

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it depends on what elation u r talkin about. if its fnds then any age group will do. if its love then a age d/f is the main factor as ideas wont match
 

rahuljin

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Yeah.. age difference does matter in todays world and is extremely important unlike previous generation...

no offense, but now a day, i think age difference does not matter at all. whats matter is love and compatibility level. previous generation have to follow a certain age group criteria in a relationship but now everyone is independent so who care about age unless its their own choose. :blah:
 
Age doesn't matter in relationship .You might get true love with your 10 year old senior or junior but in India if you want to materialize the things or want to marry the person then things changes drastically. Still after so much progress in India people are considering love marriages as crime .
 

indrajit_v5

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It really does not matter....as long as you are happy with the other person....But you should also look at the long term perspective of any relationship...
 
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