Originally Posted by cpswain
why not Dowry?whaen I have spent so much on my education n up bringing.then why should not i paid for this.the girl will enjoy the better life with me.when i'm getting so ,much with out any risk,why should not I...
Originally Posted by deepakraam
Why not a dowry?Husband is going to take care of the girl,gng to become his wife, for her entire life.So in this world nothing comes for free.So we can have dowry.
So, u u guys and all the guys out there (who are in the favour of dowry)
here are some questions... 1) Why do u want to marry and get a burden.... Don't ask for burden and hence, u won't need to ask for money also...
2) And if u still feel the need... then why study or work.... Cpswain
, why do u need to study or work? U could simply get married to a well-qualified, high-earning girl and instead ur parents could give dowry to the girl....
How would u feel then? Ur comments on 'why i should not get paid for it' seem very cheap here.... more so like a hooker saying... i did so-and-so as u asked and now pay me.
.. Pls don't feel upset, but the word "paid" reflects this. If u're taking a risk in ur life, so is the girl... Do u really want to prove that u're a big loser who isn't capable of taking care of her, but needs his papa's money ??
I am sorry to say guys, but this is narrow-minded thinking... Who says girls want to sit at home and earn free bread.... Look around and u will find girls who are equally ambitious as guys and want to do something in their life and support their families.
So is ur asking for dowry justified... ?? Deepak
, let me ask u.... why do u think that a husband alone will take care of the girl.... i feel the girl contributes equally as the boy... unless u are thinking that the girl is some house-maid...
Yep! nothing comes free of cost.... U get married to a girl who would be taking care of u the rest of her life, give u ur family heir, take care of ur parents.... Isn't all this the cost she is paying through marriage (according to ur definition)
Then in this so-called transaction, where does money come into play.
If u guys think, that u're doing a favour on someone by marrying them and asking for a payment for them.... Think again.... Girls would prefer to show u the "middle finger" and walk away...