Is marriage necessary?

[sreeeekanth]

If you marry you will get all lauxaries in life. Like -

1. Good food at right time everyday
2. Support whenever you are trouble and lot lot you can get.

On the other side -
1. You have to take care of wife and her needs
2. And you have to bare if she do the things which you do not like.

At last if you marry, you will get attachment with wife. Attachment is the hurdle for freedom.

If you do not marry ... i too do not know much. Please try this and let me know feelings at the end of your life.

[pooja.teku]

I wouldn't say marriage is necessary, but it does often make life more fullfilling............... life becomes more worth living .......Day in and day out, someone is always there for you. You always have someone to share things with, do things with and laugh with, cry with, etc. You find someone whose strengths compliment yours, n it make life more beautiful......
i have seen ma parents n can surelys say marriage is a beautiful felling

[rahul_parab2006]

i'm here opposing to all................ that marriage is not the only aim of our life............. so take a example of the imagined story following:-

A couple gets married. A boy has good job, a girl leaves her job after marriage...... so for some times, they were happy ..... but as the time passes he got promotion as Finance Manager and he got so much work in hand at office and he couldn't take care much of his family esp. wife........... he was so much busy as 24#7 he just was thinking abt ihis job & stress...........so quarrels started, as generally happens..... so he can't concentarte neither in his relationship nor in his job at hand.....

but at the end, it depends on one's family, as well as need of partner at partcular stage as rosh said........

plz comment on this above imagined storyline.........

[born2rule]

yes thts right...after certain time the relationship gets changed...another amazing story can b where the gal is very ambitious and she has no time to look after husband,,children and in laws,,,and all this creates big fight between the 2...like this many imagined story can b created...
wat i feel is every problem has a solution...i mean to say the couple must keep themselves busy so tht they dnt hv time for quarrel..

[gaurav200x]

I think quarrels in a marriage begin when one starts to take marriage and his/her partner for granted, and with time their importance diminishes. Just think what do people do during courting? Why is everything fun that time, while quarrelsome after a few years of marriage. Simple thing is that when u meet someone, the fun of finding the unknown, exploring them, spending time with them... all this creates fun. However, later on, when u simply take them for granted... it becomes like an everyday routine...

Yeah! its there... So what's the big deal...

This is where the mess begins to pile up... in the mind. If the couples are smart enough and know what they lack, they can begin to think what they should do to keep the charm going. Take regular breaks and spend more time with the spouse. Take initiative to spend more time and to help them in their work. I think with time what lacks is their spending time with each other, and more so because of work pressure. Hence that 'distance' between them increases and hence, marriage becomes a burden.

I think the best thing which couples should do is to take a small break, go for a vacation and learn to re-unite themselves. This should be the ideal fuel they could add the keep their marriage running

[sheetal k]

i don't think marriage is important as long as u dont wana marry...........................

[kartik]

Most men marry thinking it as partnership,but later they realise itz a take-over ;-)

Funny quote and uncanningly true.

Marriage is a must because at the end of the day, your children know who their parents are

[united_rulz]

nope, now a days live in relationship shud b encoraged

[roshcrazy]

Originally Posted by cpswain

marriage is not necessary,but sexual pleasure do.we can get sexuall needs from other sources also..and the people who think they need emotional security in mirrage,they r weak n doesnt enjoy ownself.that's why they seek pleasure outside.

1 does need sexual pleasure...but emotional needs.n d sense of security does come into picture at a certain age in lyf.....u thnk ppl marry jus 2 satisfy their sexual needs????
u r wrong....we need sum1 to be always thr for us...marriage gives security...no matter how much ever 1 says i don need any1 , i can take care of myself...as 1 strts becomin older..becoming dependent on others..d need for sum1..tht 1 person who will be always thr for u, no matter wht u are n wht u do,arises.n this is nt some dialogue im puttin up, its a fact.man is a SOCIAL ANIMAL....n he needs support, care affection..marriage guarantees tht throughout 1s lyf...

[melroy88]

Marriage is the bond that unites two people in love and fedility...It depends on individual to individual wether they want to get married.