Outer Appearance or Inner Appearance

gurpreetsingh

Outer and Inner Experience
In today's world i think very less people are concerned about the inner appearance of a person and we all face that in our daily life from a faculty to a friends and even sometime parents everyone want a person to be good looking and have good outer appearance. We see that the person with a good inner experience mostly don't gel with all as not everybody want to remain with them specially the people having good outer appearance . Due to the issue of inner and outer appearance sometime a guy/gal has to listen some bitter words from their parents also. In colleges also most of the students are concerned about each other's outer appearance rather than knowing the inner qualities of them but they should understand that ALL GLITTERS ARE NOT GOLD so they must see the inner qualities of that person too. The debate on outer-inner sense is not that much easy and we cannot solve it just by discussing it.
To change this mindset we have to change ourselves our mindsets regarding all other people who are having good inner appearance. I have seen that in colleges, society and all other place a person who is good looking only get importance and there is very less preference and importance given to a person with a good nature and thoughts.

rama0412

There is a say that the face depicts the beauty of the heart. The inner appearance can not be seen but can be felt with a good bit of understanding a person, whereas what we see instantly and create a first mental impression is the outer appearance. Once the outer appearance is not impressive (I don't mean good looks or beauty, but certainly the dressing up sense and basic hygine) there is no point in talking or exploring about the inner appearance.In brief the external appearance does the marketing part of one's personality whereas the inner appearance depicts the quality to the product.

Regards
Rama

Kurayami

Well, it's a fast world...no1 has the time to get to know the inner self. Not many a times will you get the chance to know the other person's inner appearance.

"Never judge a book by its cover" is true and so is "first impression is the last impression".
:P

HARSHA6183

outer app will be gud if inner app is clean and purified

shobhitarya

i think inner beuty is more important when judging any one if we want to have a long relationship beacause its his or her innner qualities like helpful nature n understanding that will go in long run a person with inner beuty also tends to have external beauty . so in my opinion inner beuty matters more then external u cant judge anyone from externally its good for modelling but when comes to real life its inner appearance. we cant share our ideas with a person who is externally beautiful n internally have no consideration

thakkar.rekha

I think a combination of the 2 should always work...but what you are from inside matters the most.

subscriptionsxyz

Waaaaaaaav.. what a topic.. Truly happy people actually started thinking about it.. Inner is eternal.. outer is just a mere dream