anu shukla
Par 100 posts (V.I.P)
hi there!!!
hope you all are in fine health!!!
so frnds..here i am again talking about something thats a bit emotional( so bear with me!!)
it needs to be start with a confession:
i have always tried to help others. i am very possesive about my friends or for anyone whom i care for!! there have been many instances where i have taken a stand against others when my friends were insulted...but atlast the result: both party patch up! & i am left with no one!!!
i always try to be clear from heart ,& always speak out things in front of people rather than backbiting!! but this has caused me a damage, people do feel i am not friendly!!!
i do feel that friends living in a hostel are more like a family as we all live together,so i go many a times out of my way to help them which cause me great problems & they instead of feeling good try to make fool out of me!!!
many a times such things happen with all of us.specially when we try to step in a professional world from our secured family upbringing!! so whats the solution?? should we also become " professional"(dn't take it otherwise!!) and dual personality like others..should we try to mingle with wolves in sheep skin!!!
i really need to know!!
and please for god sake stop saying " tell others their mistake in soft tone" becauz it doesn't help much!!!! people do feel offended whn u tell them things no matter how polite you are!!specially whn they are your co- mates/ same age group!!
may seem like a small kid cribbing...but dear this is a serious issue which affects al of us smtime in our life!!!so lets try finding solution to it!!!
take care
anu
hope you all are in fine health!!!
so frnds..here i am again talking about something thats a bit emotional( so bear with me!!)
it needs to be start with a confession:
i have always tried to help others. i am very possesive about my friends or for anyone whom i care for!! there have been many instances where i have taken a stand against others when my friends were insulted...but atlast the result: both party patch up! & i am left with no one!!!
i always try to be clear from heart ,& always speak out things in front of people rather than backbiting!! but this has caused me a damage, people do feel i am not friendly!!!
i do feel that friends living in a hostel are more like a family as we all live together,so i go many a times out of my way to help them which cause me great problems & they instead of feeling good try to make fool out of me!!!
many a times such things happen with all of us.specially when we try to step in a professional world from our secured family upbringing!! so whats the solution?? should we also become " professional"(dn't take it otherwise!!) and dual personality like others..should we try to mingle with wolves in sheep skin!!!
i really need to know!!
and please for god sake stop saying " tell others their mistake in soft tone" becauz it doesn't help much!!!! people do feel offended whn u tell them things no matter how polite you are!!specially whn they are your co- mates/ same age group!!
may seem like a small kid cribbing...but dear this is a serious issue which affects al of us smtime in our life!!!so lets try finding solution to it!!!
take care
anu