Stop Doing Suicide !!!!!!!!!!!

[purush_tiwari]

Why people do suicide ? I have never understand this mistry .Life is for living not for ending . Why people not able to understant that it it nothing more important than life . Failure is not equal to end ,I am ready to give exam 1000 times in the same class if i can live that long .

[niks5]

hey dude the ppl who comiit suicide for them passing is everything.... they are poor n parential pressure is immense.... u might be ready to repeat in teh same class 1000 times but they r not...!!
u dont know their situation...its a bad thing to take ur life but it happens...its their mentality..!!

[pooja.teku]

But ending up ones life is that the only answer to this niks...... i know i cant even imagine wat their situation may be but still ......
Life is worth living i dont know why ppl cant understand this....
they owe their life to so many ppll n then u just kill urself without thinking of those who realy care for u ...
as per me the number one cause for suicide is untreated depression ...... and depression is highly treatable so i feel ppl spould just get help

[niks5]

yes they shuould get help.... but from whom????
their parents are the ones pressurising them and thus leading them into depression ritee....so all this should be taught at school.... wat say ???

[hemant.k008]

Bossy!
U will not understand un till u will suffer urself.
Situation is really worst that what u think my dear friend. COme and see in IIT how people feel when they r told to reapper for the paper or when they r failed. U know..that along with him there r many people who suffers.
Take an example of a student who is from poor family...
Some how his parents have accompdateed money for his further studies..
Lots of expectations r there in his family when he leaves his home.
But can u imagine, that when he fails .. amny people have to suffer from that pressure.. what whould b his situation, to whom he is answerable..

My friend.. if u look in to the matter. there r thousands of thing that comes in to consideration.. Its easy to say that u can give exams 1000 times. but when it comed to reality.. its different.

[DRISHYA]

Ya...... its difficult to understand wat each n every person is going through. We all have different emotional stress level. We are lucky that our parents dont scare us to death we dont score that high.
I have seen a girl in my school who scored 94 in her maths exam and wen her mother came to school for open house she scolded her daughter so much for not scoring beyond 95 n d girl ended up crying...... So u see wat all kind pressure r there on such people..... People who commit suicide for studies have passig as their ultimate goal in life n failing in it means failing in life for them.... I dont agree with suicide but then that momentary pressure makes them do so.... i m quite sure if someone wud stop them at that time later they'll think that, "ohh, thank god.. i didnot commit suicide at that time"...... but not all can be saved at that time.

[deepakraam]

If you fathom the reason for suicides,it will mostly be depression or frustration.The reason for depression can be many.But there are lot other ways with which you can overcome such depressions.The hard fact is that the people dunt take time to find or rather not willing to find out the solution for such problms.But 50% of suicide cases ends in failure.

But one thing is far sure.Suicide is never a solution for a problem.

One thing is for sure.By comitting suicide you are murdering people who love you very much.


-Deepak.

[max77]

life is a gift, use it wisely. if you are not wise enough so let it be.

[neha_1987]

its very sad when we read that 10th class students are committting suicide. yes ofcourse there is pressure. n i don think that it can be taught at school.. isnt the school also resposible for putting pressures on the students?

[pooja.teku]

c agrreed that most of them r preasurized n go through many thing n at point of time they find only one answer for all their problem but u know it is not easy for them also to commite suside .......
n i agree with deepak that "By comitting suicide you are murdering people who love you very much."
c they can be helped n u just need to be aware of the sign.....these ppl need help
all the ppl cant be helped but some can
n yea even i have heard of these case where childern suside n all ....
the parents should be given spl lects by the school
i guess that the only way out

[akila2187]

i agree that there is a lot of pressure on students bt for this even the parents nd teachers should understand .. wen ever they talk to the students they shuldnt make them feel that this is life and death game for u .. instead they can tell them to do well put in 100% efforts...
and
talking about poor students they should understand that their parents r doing so much for them .. until and unless they dnt hv the seriousness no one can help... and committing suicide is nt the end thing .. if they study hard why cantthey pass if thier parents r spending on their y wont they spent on good books and considerably decent lifestyle.
we must hv seen ppl committing suicide coz they cudnt pay off the loan they took ... bt if we see wen ever ppl r dieing wen they hang them self .. deep in their heart they feel that someone sud come and save them coz they r nt able to bear tat pain.
so at the end committing suicide ppl think will relieve them of all suffering bt they nvr think what about the ppl they love or love thm.

[asad]

good 1...........

[tejas15aug]

its crime to decide the things which r not in ur hand and you should not cross the almighty and more importantly find something worthy in your self because here everyone is someone

[born2rule]

its not only,,abt failing in exams...ppl who commit suicide r not able to overcome their problems,,,they feel they r d most depressed ppl on this earth...and whn they fail to fulfill their desires,,,they think they hv lost everything in life...in most of d cases ppl frm slums commit suicide cos they dnt hv any charm in their life..no purpose to live,,,so they give up their life.

[melroy88]

Why people do suicide ? I have never understand this mistry .Life is for living not for ending . Why people not able to understant that it it nothing more important than life . Failure is not equal to end ,I am ready to give exam 1000 times in the same class if i can live that long .

Its not only failing in exams purush, Suicide is a broad thing which has many possible reasons leading to it.You have just taken into account 1 aspect.Suicide means a person taken away his own life due to certain reasons whatsoever!!!
The question: Is it right?
The Answer: Obviously NO
Solution : Help people deal with their problems,awareness regarding stress theraphies and events and talks/sessions regarding how to tackle your problems should be promoted.Certain books on relationships and the problems it has has to be promoted.Such things should be implemented,ofcourse there are many things,these are just few.
Apart from this the major role in avoiding such unforscene circumstances is our parents .They should guide their children and should help them cope up with life and should teach them -THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON IN LIFE-->Failure is a stepping stone to success.If parents motivate their childtren during failure this will help their children to develop a fighting drive in them during failure.With regards to punishment,parents should keep a healthy balance of punishment / love .
___________
Regards,
Melroy

[mani_29rocks]

v JUst sit around n comment but 4 those who actually go thur it its horrible... :SugarwareZ-064: v cannot understand their situation... da main cause is necessarily FAMILY PRESSURE n PEER PRESSURE n importantly the QUESTION "HOW CAN I FACE THE WORLD?"
no1 really wants 2 end his life for fun... but the society forces him 2 take such actions!! ofcource if one really fights back n prove himself again n make them eat their words then there nothing like that!.... but for this he need a lot of patience n will totake on the challenge!!!!

dear life is precious but it it should be worth it....n its ur job to make it!!!

[pooja.teku]

hey mani
i agree that we can not even imagine what these ppl who kill them selves go through n i know they dont do it for fun too..............it just that their mentaly upset that it n bacicaly coz of depression but manu they have to fight back killin ur self is not the way out
life is a gift we dont have any right to kill ourself at some point of time we have to be strong n there r many councelin n all done too to help these ppl
c it hard but possible they just need help that it

[bonddonraj]

I SHALL ONLY SAY THAT IT TAKES COURAGE TO SHOW SUCH COWERDINESS.................... RUNNING AWAY FROM BATTEL OF LIFE IS SHAME FUL ACT ...... I WOULD HAVE TAKEN SUCH CHOISE LONG AGO ....... BUT CHOSE TO FIGHT BACK.......

[radhakm]

Suicide is not only cowardice, but it also troubles others. It can be accepted only if it doesnt affect anyone but yourself, which is out of question!

[lucie]

Suicide is a foolish act. But one needs more courage to do that though it seems like an act of no courage. It can be avoided through proper counselling

[born2rule]

when i hear this word suicide 1 case comes to my mind that is of...nafisa joseph..mtv vj's suicide case..wat was it that made her dissatisfied in her life and she commited suicide..
she had money,power, popularity..everything except a good loving husband..just bcos of this she hanged herself..
by this i want to say there is no particular reason for suicide,,its just the persons dissatisfaction,,the trauma d person goes thru..

[JEAN]

suicide is a bad option for any problem ,people commit if they feel depressed or might be preasurized ,even commiting suicide is a crime if tht person is saved after killing oneself .there r many helpline numbers provided in the newspapers which can help such kind of people who tend to commit suicide.one's problems must always be discussed to some elderly person to get a proper remedy

[ankitgokani]

i dont understand y do parents pressurize their kids on scoring high as if thy had evr scored themselves so high??????????????
n aslo pressures alwaz cause depression n in india ther is so much poverty tht evey day ther r so many ppl committin suicide in order to overcome their difficulties...............

[dhamodi]

Life is priceless..... use it wisely......

[ankitgokani]

well u are rite i also think y ppl commit sucide but they are under so much pressure that dey donot see anyother alternative of hetting out of there so they commit sucide

[amit_studies]

I feel surroundings matter a lot, what we watch on television, how emotional support we get in the family is the most important factors which decides the quality of life we live...

Here's a case which will leave u dumb-shocked:

There was a 5-yr old who stayed in slums... One day, he wanted to have a choclate.. So he asked his mother for 1 rupee, his mother refused, so upset with this, he hanged himself...

who can we blame this for? His mother, the one rupee coin, his needs...? I think the answer, is failure to accept rejection... In almost all cases this is the reason.. A student fails to accept his failure in exams...

In the recent Air hostess suicide case, till what has come across is that she was unhappy with her married life.. so she ended her life.. Even here, she failed to accept that her married life will not improve...

Amit.

[beone]

if my living gives trouble to too many people, and i don't have a chance to change that, i would prefer to suicide, so that they would have one big trouble and misery due to my death and live their lives better after that day......

[madronny]

yes they shuould get help.... but from whom????
their parents are the ones pressurising them and thus leading them into depression ritee....so all this should be taught at school.... wat say ???

[ed1968]

i think suicide is a way of saying to the world "hey i am weak stop picking on me or else or else " and only sick people suicide other that taking the stressful situation as an opportunity for learning growth and change.

[manyuj4u]

i agree wid u dat ppl shud never ever commit suicide......bt ppl r sumtimes faced wid situations where they dnt find ne reasons 2 live....its nt just abt failures.....sumtimes life seems lik hell.....

[rj031086]

Suicide means "going against God's will to live more".
Again it really depends on situation to situation why people do so.
Commiting suicide due to academic pressure is simply wrong. One should not feel inferior if he/she not good @<hidden> studies or whatever academic pressure they face. Parents should always support their child and motivate them from time-to-time so that their ward does'nt feel any pressure. (Improve your thinking & watch Tare Zameen Par - Every child is really special in life).
Those who suicide must always think about others (their loved ones) and its impact before taking such a decision.

Only solution : Whenever we loose, just remember - Its not our time now. May be God is waiting to grant something better in future. Its just the test of our patience.

Again, here I'll say that its easy for us to type ; however, situations really become so critical & out of control that its hard to imagine it.

Its battle - patience v/s life. Only few are able to beat latter.

[ch.anirban]

another name to life is problem ......... but u need to keep in mind that whenever there is a problem there is a solution. So to run away like a coward is not the correct way... face it... solve it....!!

[praddy1606]

People who suicide are the ones who easily give up rather than fighting their problems. This act is the most pathetic way of saying that, 'I have no other alternative of fighting the problem'. Those people have to understand that the battle ground looks scary when u c it from outside. But when u actually get into it, its a total diff scenario

[ankitgogetter]

Hi this is ankit. bt suicide is a ultimate step nd one shud considr bout dere loved ones while commiting such a crime. Suicide is no solution, the right way is to be determined, pass the exam wid gud grades and prove ur parents that u cn also do smthn. This happnd wid me also. I ws vry bad at mathematics in class 10th n my parents believed dat i wont b able to pass. Bt i proved dem wrng by scoring 94 in board xams....

[Kurayami]

To every problem ,there are 2 solutions.

Fight or flight.
Flight brands u a coward whereas fight grants u honor.
And we all go through depression phase..as companies have decreasing phase so does life. Choose fight coz this experience is very important for us later on someday.

"Only when the glass is empty,can u fill it up again."

:SugarwareZ-185:

[YogeshTheDevil]

Suicide is a very drastic step - people do take this step, I think in a moment of extreme selfish weakness when all they are able to see their own misery, without caring for their loved ones - especially the immediate family. This is not a solution of the problems - the problems which would otherwise have greater chances of getting solved by living.

[rj031086]

Another bad tragedy - Read this...
Girl with 92% kills herself over LSR seat - Delhi - City - NEWS - The Times of India (http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/NEWS/City/Delhi/Girl-with-92-kills-herself-over-LSR-seat/articleshow/4949914.cms)