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bishnupriya sahoo
October 16th, 2009, 02:25 AM
who will be a good mother.........a working lady or a housewife?




aditi22
October 18th, 2009, 08:26 PM
both can be,,......depends on person n envrnment..if the envrmnt is

harrysingh
October 18th, 2009, 08:40 PM
working is good i think. they keep themselves busy and it is good indeed. housewives dont get so much respect

vma
October 18th, 2009, 10:26 PM
a working lady might not have a lot of time to spend with her children but what counts more is the quality of time not the quantity

marshal_17
October 19th, 2009, 01:59 AM
They both different perspective and different command in status. Imagine your housewives mom and your working wife or girfriend they both play an important role in your life.
There is no comparision in both of them....

supreetc
October 19th, 2009, 04:11 PM
Sounds great being at home raising kids but today's society is different, more mothers are working more then ever before. Many women wish to do the stay at home mom thing but the working mom is the latest trend. Your kids mature faster, and your family income is greatly increased when both parents are working.

saphr001
October 19th, 2009, 06:22 PM
both can be good mothers. but in different aspects

KatharineHudson
October 19th, 2009, 08:41 PM
I have friends who have had working mothers and friends who had stay-at-home moms. They all turned out ok. I would say that, in order to be a good working mother, you have to have a goods work/life balance and enough money to pay for decent childcare.

gurpreetsingh
October 19th, 2009, 08:42 PM
Well I think good mother cannot be identified or measured on the crieteria that whether she is working or not. In todays world women is liberal and should remain liberal they also want an interaction with outer world and society which cannot be done at best as a housewife. I does not affect at all if the world is working she will not be a good mother and if she is housewife then also its not guarrented that she will be a good mother.

SO measuring women on her work status for the question like she is good mother or not is a meaningless. Every mother loves her child and we should not put up questions on her love for children for only one thing THAT SHE IS A WORKING WOMEN...................

abhinandan02
October 19th, 2009, 09:57 PM
The One that can devote more time to her child!!!!

sythe
October 20th, 2009, 08:12 AM
I think a helpful & understanding partner makes a big difference regardless whether you work or a stay at home person.

I've seen some terrible child rearing by stay at home parents and vice versa.
It's tough no matter what.

But then again, I don't have kids.

Mr.M Rizvi
October 20th, 2009, 06:00 PM
The one who can provide the basic amenities and spends quality time....it doesn't matter if she is a working woman or a house wife...A housewife can too be not present when her child needs her.. she can just gossip with her neighbours or sumthin like that..

Vidya Vajapeya
October 20th, 2009, 08:13 PM
this is a bit difficult to answer, because it purely depends on that particular individual. even if she works, she can manage her household and kids, and if she is a housewife, then also she can help her out in family, sometimes housewives fail to take care of her family or children because she lacks knowledge or exposure which a working lady normally has.

0pinochio1
October 20th, 2009, 09:33 PM
I think remaining active is more important rather than debating whether one should have a job or not. Even if one is a housewife and doesn't have a full time job, still I feel one should be involved in some activity like social work, or some art or craft, something to keep you developing into a better human being and not become a couch potato only watching those stupid sitcoms.

shreeya bhati
October 20th, 2009, 09:58 PM
working wife is good. she is busy. and others are also ok

nina2009
October 20th, 2009, 10:10 PM
working or staying at home has no relation to being a mother.....a nmother who stays at home might neglect her kids more than a working one,or might have more temper issues and stuff,so i think that its 2 completely different issues

jugall
October 22nd, 2009, 11:22 AM
well according to me a mother is always a mother,be it a workin lady or a housewife.

saumya nair
October 22nd, 2009, 11:41 AM
i think ...........................................................................................................both of them can b great

saumya nair
October 22nd, 2009, 12:03 PM
both.......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Cat Xavi
October 22nd, 2009, 05:12 PM
There a lot of factors other than the occupation of the person that determine whether she would make a good mother or not. Depends on the individual.

v_riyer
October 23rd, 2009, 11:21 AM
Working mother now days have many options to balance there work and personnel life.
Working mother scores above the housewife in a point that she can guide her children with the latest developments in the world which she comes across daily. Kids of a working women are much more independent and they are able to face the world with lot of confidence.

But last but not the least a working lady shoulders a big responsibility in our society to see that she is a good housewife and good mother.

red7sim
October 23rd, 2009, 04:27 PM
i think that like in everything else, one has to find the right balance

nidhi4u
October 23rd, 2009, 08:08 PM
every women knows how to strike a balance between her home n job...as a mother she won't compromise her child needs n wil sacrifice everything...i think d society must stop arguing on this....

and for all those who think dat ia working women cant b a good mother den all d fathers r not at all good bcoz dey all r always working men...

plz stop d discrimination in ur minds...only den it wil get manifested in ur actions

cool_123
October 24th, 2009, 10:25 PM
V cannot say who will make a better mother of d 2. There r many examples where both haVE raised their childrens in d right way.

So v should not compare between d these 2. There r other factors like peers which play a very critical role in d upbringing.

abhi44q
October 30th, 2009, 11:15 PM
both has +ve and -ve points...depends up on environment , culture, society... etc

anand2110
October 31st, 2009, 04:49 PM
both can do...it totally depends on other individual factor than this factors

abdillahiali
October 31st, 2009, 06:34 PM
i would prefer the working lady bcoz they are mostly learned n in turn wud educate my kinds and make my life easy n interesting unlike the latter . but that is just my view we all have our own views

Harshah
October 31st, 2009, 07:36 PM
Any women can be a good mother..and it can be good and bad a mother is a mother she cant be good or bad be it working or housewife

Akku84
October 31st, 2009, 11:30 PM
who would be a helping hand in this world where inflation is on a high..................

subscriptionsxyz
November 7th, 2009, 04:02 PM
Both have their own advantages.. housewife can take care of you and your children.